| Abstract: |
Large language models can generate fluid and apparently empathetic dialogues, but they often confuse the user’s momentary feeling with the quality of the relationship. This limitation causes them to react shorttermed to negative emotions and prevents them from modeling the dynamics of bonds over time. In this position paper, we propose a structural paradigm shift and propose a relationship-aware architecture that explicitly separates the emotional axis, denoting immediate affection, from the relational axis, representing the evolving emotional bond. The system maintains a dynamic affective link between the agent and the user, stored in a GraphRAG-based knowledge graph, which serves as a compact representation of the relationship history, current status, and affetive bound. During real-time interaction, the agent retrieves an affective context, comprising its personality, and relational memories, to generate responses by jointly selecting an emotion and a communicative intention based on SPAFF and Turning-Toward theory. After each dialogue, a post-interaction module labels emotions, evaluates message pairs using an intention-emotion weighting matrix, and updates the affective link. A theoretical overview of the design illustrates how this framework allows agents to maintain functional affective links despite temporary negative emotions. |